If you’re HIV-negative, you’ll need to get on PrEP and take necessary steps to protect yourself. If you get HIV, you’re going to take your meds and live a long, happy life. I want to reach back through the years, hug him, and say, “Baby, you’re not going to die.” When I read it now, I cheer for that younger, scared me. The poetry is bad and cringingly written in all caps, but it’s one relic of my early writing I treasure.Īt the end of the poem, I come to the conclusion that coming out is worth it, even in the face of death - that it’s better to live a short, authentic life than to live in fear. I even wrote a 10+ page poem called “Heavy Is Venus” (H - I - V) in high school when I was 14 or 15, still deeply in the closet, in which I went through my feelings on this. In high school, I listened to musicals like Rent and believed wholeheartedly that if I chose to live life as an out gay man, I was sentencing myself to a slow death from AIDS. Welcome to the party - but don't be unprepared. This invisibility and isolation makes stumbling into a gay bar (or discovering a hookup app) akin to opening a treasure trove and finding that it’s yours, all yours. Where are cartoons with two little boy dogs sharing a spaghetti noodle, falling in love? Not on children’s TV.
When we see those same cartoons, we understand a jarring truth: We are out of sync with the world. Every message they’ve been taught through childhood - when the cartoon boy dog meets the cartoon girl dog and the girl dog bats a pair of absurd eyelashes - cues them to have sex. As soon as puberty hits, bam! They’re fucking. Your straight peers may start early - in high school or earlier.
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They have no idea how to prepare you for the eros embraced by many members of our community or the risks that come with it.
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